Neighbors Say Barn WEDDINGS Raise a Rumpus
By Julie Bosman

For legions of young couples, there is no wedding venue more desirable than a barn in the country, with its unfussy vibe, picturesque setting and rural authenticity.

For neighbors of the wedding barns, it is a summer-long agony.

“They blare music all night long, they have college students out there screaming, and everyone’s drinking,” said Laurie Tulchin, who lives in a rural part of Iowa City next door to a wedding barn. “Rural residents have quiet lifestyles. Sometimes I just think, ‘What the heck happened out here?’ ”

In rural areas across the country, residents have protested that some barn owners flout zoning rules requiring that they operate only as agricultural enterprises. Unlike other businesses, the barns are often not inspected to ensure that they are up to code, and many lack proper sanitation, fire doors and sprinklers, accommodations for people with disabilities and licenses to serve liquor.

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In the Midwest, century-ld wooden dairy barns in shades of red and chocolate brown are ubiquitous, but they typically have little purpose on a modern farm: They are expensive to maintain, and their doors are too small for 21st-century equipment. Transforming them into cavernous event spaces with banquet tables, dance floors and lofts for mingling has become a new way for their owners to make money.

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Grooms and brides say the barns are part of a cultural shift away from traditional weddings. At a typical barn wedding, formal china and glassware are out, in favor of carefully mismatched plates and Mason jars for sipping cocktails.


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Guests nibble casual fare like grilled corn on the cob and barbecued pork. If the weather cooperates, the evening often ends with people gathering around a bonfire and toasting s’mores under the stars.

A boom in renting barns for weddings, like this one in Grant, Minn., has created rural friction.CreditJenn Ackerman for The New York Times

Resources helping engaged couples dream up decorating ideas have proliferated in recent years. Pinterest boards and rusticweddingchic.com suggest adding touches like sofas made of hay bales and wine bottles repurposed as candle holders. Websites recommend out-of-the-way venues, as the shopping blog Racked did last year in “The Most Beautiful Spots Around Chicago for a Barn Wedding.”

The barn owners say they are responding to a demand in the market. Scott Jordan, who owns 50 acres here in Grant, a quiet hamlet outside St. Paul, spent more than $300,000 to restore a barn on his property so that he could rent it out for weddings, charging $4,800 per event.

His neighbors, he said with a grimace, did everything they could to stop him.

“They ganged up on me,” said Mr. Jordan, a ruddy-faced, muscular 53-year-old in work boots and a red Harley-Davidson T-shirt, as he surveyed his barn, which was being busily prepared for its first wedding of the season. “They’re putting up the biggest stink.”

Mr. Jordan said that he had installed fire doors, handicapped-accessible parking spaces and a modern septic system to appease his neighbors, but that they were still threatening to sue the township over the wedding barn.

“We’ve spent an awful lot of money,” he said. “I’m a good neighbor. And they’re still mad.”

Indeed, city council meetings have become stages for disputes in areas where friendly relations are the norm. Some small townships with ambiguous zoning laws have been forced to examine their regulations to figure out whether the wedding barns are legal.

Tom Windisch, one of Mr. Jordan’s neighbors, said he and other residents had been shocked that running a wedding venue in the country was legal.

Jenna and Michael Christofferson of Minneapolis held their wedding Saturday at Scott Jordan’s barn in Grant, Minn. Credit: Jenn Ackerman for The New York Times

“We moved out here for the rural nature, the quiet aspects of it, the open space,” Mr. Windisch, 47, said as he stood on his front porch on a bluff near Mr. Jordan’s property. “So do I want a band cranking music out of that building several times a week? No, I do not. Anybody would have reacted the way we did.”

Some neighbors insist that their concerns are for the safety of the guests. “All these people want to have this rustic outdoor wedding in the country so they can get closer to nature, but that barn was built for storing hay,” said Jeff Hettmann, whose next-door neighbor operates a wedding barn in Glenmore, Wis., outside Green Bay. “It’s not designed to have 200 people jumping up and down and dancing in it.”

The operator of the barn, Steve Corrigan, said that it is more than 1,000 feet from Mr. Hettmann’s house, and that there was no way Mr. Hettmann could hear noise from the weddings.

“The people who have these barns have a passion to protect the history of the land,” Mr. Corrigan said. “When you drive through the countryside, you’ll see deteriorated barns that have fallen into disrepair. When they’re gone, it destroys the skyline.”

In some towns, judges have intervened, leaving trails of anguished soon-to-be-married couples. Last summer, a judge in St. Louis County, Mo., ruled that a historic barn on a property with a view of the Mississippi and Missouri Rivers was a potential fire hazard, leaving a bride and groom who had scheduled a wedding reception there only days to make other plans.

“It was a debacle,” said the bride, Hannah Oberle, who recently completed graduate school at the University of Missouri. “In our minds, we were like, ‘Man, this did not turn out how we expected.’ ”

Mr. Jordan, the barn owner, said he had spent $300,000 to restore it. Neighbors fear noise. Credit: Jenn Ackerman for The New York Times

The operators of the barns say their businesses should be considered a form of agritourism, a use of farmland not unlike petting zoos, hayrides and other ventures that have become popular in an era when family farming is difficult to sustain.

The boom shows no sign of slowing down. Last year, there were 44 wedding barns in Wisconsin, and about eight more are expected to open this year, said Steve Peterson, the president of the Wisconsin Agricultural Tourism Association.

“There’s some real growing pains with the wedding barns,” Mr. Peterson said. “They exploded onto the scene before a lot of issues could be worked out. Most of these barns are in townships, and it’s tough to rely on these small township boards to solve complicated zoning issues.”

Some towns are scrambling to change zoning laws to allow more landowners to cash in. The planning commission in Hinesburg, Vt., voted to change its zoning — which allowed mainly farming and forestry — to a more generous definition including weddings, day camps and cafes.

Bill Bruentrup, the chairman of Friends of Minnesota Barns, said that while he was generally positive about the trend of barn weddings, he had some mixed feelings.

“As a preservationist, I feel it’s been a godsend for some of these barns to be saved like this,” Mr. Bruentrup said. “Some of them were beautiful old barns, and if it wasn’t for this to generate some income, they wouldn’t exist. But I’m not the neighbor who moved out to the country for peace and quiet and has to hear a band playing till 12 o’clock at night.”

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  1. I love the photographs of the flowers and the inside of the barn all ready to go, it looks so cozy and yet formal. I think if there is a way to avoid spending 30,000 dollars on a wedding, decreasing the anxiety related to a wedding and so much more, what is wrong with that. My husband and I got married on the Oregon coast in an area known as Hug Point. There was a beautiful water fall and a bit further a large cave. We picked the most beautiful wild flowers and arranged them all over the cave rock and candles the morning of the wedding, we both wore beige but were dressed up. We had an intimate gathering and we had a blast. We wrote all of our vows and then we changed and had a lovely coastal dinner at a lovely restaurant outside on the deck. Total cost, somewhere around $400.00 and that included the coast of the clothes. So there you have it. People may have thought we were nuts but frankly we didn’t care, as a wedding is one social event that should be for the couple. Sending love and hugs and lots of coffee your way, via little fairies. xoxoxo Joni

      1. I know it sounds crazy but it is true and we had a great time, no pressure, we used a local pastor, who lived on the beach and had no problem marrying a couple of people in a cave. It was very special. Hope you have an amazing Thanksgiving my friend. It is a strange one but we still have so much to be thankful for and least I know I do and I hope you feel the same way. Love, hugs, and blessings coming your way my friend. Joni

      2. What a beautiful humbleness vs extravagance. Blessings and Thanksgiving love and big hugs to you and your family, Joni! Cheers!💕🎼🍃🌺🍂☕️☕️💕

      3. Cheers as well. Made two of those sweet potato pies and already had some yum yum. You all have a blessed thanksgiving with your loved ones. Hugs, and lots of love to y’all. I appreciate each and every one of you too. 🤗💕❤️😘☕️☕️

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